Posts by Jasbindar Singh

Autumn keeps on giving…

It is a beautiful autumn day with the most perfect interplay of clouds and light playing on dappled trees. The vivid yellow, orange and almost red leaves on the season’s palette are stunning. And beneath them, crinkled and in sepia,  leaves carpet and the lush green of lawns, rustling and whispering: “The show’s not over… not yet!”

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Responding to constructive feedback

Can you recall the last time you received some constructive feedback whether at work or in your personal life?   And how did you react to it?

Let’s face it – getting feedback, especially that which is developmental and in the ‘needing some work category’, isn’t always easy.

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Gratitude

This morning I went to one of my locals to get my morning fix. One of the little joys about life that I am grateful for is my morning coffee (and on some days, for variety, ginger chai!)

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How Being Plagued by ‘Not Doing Enough’ can be a Trap

I have a very healthy dose of self-loathing. But I think we all have a past of being whatever our story was, of feeling not good enough. It can propel you to work harder and do more, but it can also be a tremendous trap, and you can’t see beyond it. – Kim Cattarall 

Last month, working up and down the country, I heard a question voiced by several women. Their concern was, “Am I doing enough?” 

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The Gift of New Beginnings

Endings are a natural, inevitable part of life.

Whether these endings come about in our jobs and careers, love and family life or other aspects of our social, recreational and community life, there is an inevitable emotional reaction. Life as we have known is no longer and there is a consequent feeling of being in transition or as a colleague put it – “total limbo land.”

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How to Move Beyond Your Comfort Zone

To-be-outstanding-get-comfortable-with-being-uncomfortable.You gain strength, courage and confidence by every experience in which you really stop to look fear in the face. You are able to say to yourself  “I have lived through this horror. I can take the next thing that comes along. You must do the thing you cannot do.”

Been out of your comfort zone lately? Can you recall how you reacted how it  influenced  making the right decisions?

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Seeing ourselves more clearly…

For a long time, my friend, a former journalist and writing pro used to be on my case.

Every few months we would catch up for a coffee at the local and have a rant and rave about all things that either fired us up or depressed us including injuries and accidental mishaps!

That is what you do with your friends, right?

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What do you enjoy about what you do?

Have you been asked a question recently – a simple one at that – which caused you to stop and think.  Your mind flicks into another gear as it goes through the search and inquiry process until it connects with some semblance of an answer.

But what is interesting is that long after you have responded, you find yourself still mulling over the question!

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What is your idea of success….?

Success is something most human beings desire and gravitate towards. The word itself has a rich, positive connotation.

A lot of products and services get sold based on the promise of success. Buy this or do that and will find yourself in the winner’s camp.

But what does success mean to you?

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